Posted by Jeffrey on Thursday, 22 May, 2008
Amy writes,
About 4 months ago, I found out my ex boyfriend had cheated. Because we have been dating for 4 years (2 on, 1 off and then 2 more on) I felt that I needed to give him a chance, so I switched the relationship to open relationship and then things went down hill. 2 months ago we broke up. I loved him very much and I am having such a hard time getting over him. ¶ It seems that I am doing better and then I found out that he is moving in with the girl that he cheated on me with. I am in a way devastated. ¶ I have been trying to move on with my life with a “friend” but I couldn’t help fixating on my “friend” so I can forget about my ex. I don’t think its healthy. Now it has come to a point where I think I felt something more for my “friend” and I would like to see where it takes me… ¶ Is it fair or a good idea to be making that decision now? or should I wait until I am totally forgotten about my ex? Read the rest of this entry »
Posted by Jeffrey on Thursday, 15 May, 2008
Juicy writes,
About 6 years ago my High School Sweetheart and I ran into each other at an event. We both knew that we still loved each other and it was ON!!!! I truly believe that this man is my soul mate - the Love of my Life!!!!! However, we just couldn’t make it happen, at that time I was still married and so was he. After some time I left my home and relationship because we planned to be together, but he had some issues with his daughter and his wife’s health - so we agreed that I would give him some time to get his things in order, we didn’t want to hurt anyone or cause embarrassment to his family or mine so we kept quiet about our plans. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted by Jeffrey on Wednesday, 7 May, 2008
flourish writes,
The man I love hasn’t spoken to me in seven months. We had a rocky relationship in which he shut me out several times. When we began to get friendly again, I was too angry and shut him out for a few months, refusing to speak to him and giving him a taste of his own medicine. Now, I would like us to talk again, but he won’t respond to any of my e-mails and has changed his phone number. I ran into him randomly and I could see that he was as shocked as I was. I think that he still cares, but I wonder if I’m being foolish. Is there anything I can do to resolve this situation? Read the rest of this entry »