Stay with boyfriend or go back to ex?

Posted by Jeffrey on Thursday, 14 August, 2008

Sally writes,

Ill try to make this short. I been with my current boyfriend for about 8 months an its kinda boring, we hardly go out now and we dont even talk on the phone, we text eachother. but now my ex want me back (He always did) our break up was dumb, an hes really funny. me an my ex went together for like 10 months an is ALOT sexier then my boyfriend. They are really different from eachother like”my boyfriend dosent want to have sex, my ex does. my ex doesnt have a job or car, my boyfriend does.my boyfriend is kinda shy my ex is not close to shy. there are things that i really like about my ex and things that i really like about my boyfriend. any advice? Read the rest of this entry »

My wife was texting another man!

Posted by Jeffrey on Wednesday, 28 May, 2008

Pleasehelp writes,

I recently found out that my wife was texting another man? Apparently and from my investigation this had only occurred for about 2weeks or so?? She had been going out with her friends, and apparently she met this guy and they exchanged numbers. She claims that nothing occured, just plain texting?? ¶ What do I make of this, please give me your advise. ¶ She has never given me any other reasons to doubt her, this is the first time??

Pleasehelp,

What is “just plain texting?” It sounds like she’s saying, “We just talked. That’s it!” But let’s say — since you’re obviously concerned — they were flirting via SMS. Read the rest of this entry »

Is it a good idea to be in a rebound relationship?

Posted by Jeffrey on Thursday, 22 May, 2008

Amy writes,

About 4 months ago, I found out my ex boyfriend had cheated. Because we have been dating for 4 years (2 on, 1 off and then 2 more on) I felt that I needed to give him a chance, so I switched the relationship to open relationship and then things went down hill. 2 months ago we broke up. I loved him very much and I am having such a hard time getting over him. ¶ It seems that I am doing better and then I found out that he is moving in with the girl that he cheated on me with. I am in a way devastated. ¶ I have been trying to move on with my life with a “friend” but I couldn’t help fixating on my “friend” so I can forget about my ex. I don’t think its healthy. Now it has come to a point where I think I felt something more for my “friend” and I would like to see where it takes me… ¶ Is it fair or a good idea to be making that decision now? or should I wait until I am totally forgotten about my ex? Read the rest of this entry »

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