Posted by Jeffrey on Wednesday, 16 April, 2008
Kiki writes,
When I met him I knew he had a lot of female friends. I have no problem with this. However, there is one, whom he’s been friends with for about 7 months or so, that has got me bothered. Until about 3 months ago (when they began working at the same place), he rarely mentioned her. Lately, I have noticed that they talk or text each other several times a day. He claims that they only talk about work. However, they both only work at the assisted living facility about 3-4 times a week. I question how much do they need to discuss. He’s been dishonest about the times that they have spoken or text one another. I spoke to him about this and let him know that I was not comfortable with this friendship. I don’t understand the secrecy with her. He has even gotten to the point that he will discuss things with her and not talk to me, and yes some of it personal. While I know virtually nothing about this woman. When I question him, I get the “we are just friends” talk. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted by Jeffrey on Monday, 14 April, 2008
Macey writes,
Ive been living with this guy for almost a year. Well, here recently his friends moved in right across the street from us, and a couple of them are girls. Ive always had a problem with him hanging out with girls, but with one of the girls, he calls her like 3 times a day and i rarely get to see him because he stays over there hangin out with his buddies until time for bed. We are on the verge of breaking up, but his argument is that i need to let him have his friends and that he needs time away from me. He has even asked me to go home for a couple of weeks so he can be alone. We are having a baby together in july and I really dont want to lose him. What should I do? Read the rest of this entry »
Posted by Jeffrey on Thursday, 10 April, 2008
Shelby writes,
I recently found out that my husband of seven years has been paying his ex-wife additional money above and beyond the court ordered child support. It totals $12,000 over the last 23 months. He has lied when I have asked if he is giving her money. I decided to check on the account and found 14 deposits into her account over the last 23 months. I am upset. What should I do?
Shelby,
You are understandly upset. Your husband betrayed your trust. However, his intentions may be good. The mandatory amount of child support determined by the court is often insufficient to help a single mother out, and your husband is simply offering a better life to his child(ren) from his previous marriage. Read the rest of this entry »
