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Posted by Jeffrey on Tuesday, 25 March, 2008

Diggy writes,

We met via our kids. The boys wanted a playdate and I thought ugh not another playdate! But, when my son told me the kid he wanted to hang out with, I was like YES! I had had my eye on this really cute dad for a couple of years. I didnt know what his story was but I soon found out he was single, etc. I called him up the weekend before our kids playdate and asked him out for a drink for our own playdate. I thought it would be a casual physical thing which is what I was into. Just acting out with men and being a bit loose. To make a long story short, we hit it off (he had not been with anyone for 2 years) and have had many wonderful times together on our off weekends we play house and get to live as individuals rather than parents. With our kids, we have an amazing time as well. We all get on famously. We have so many connections and we cant believe we didn’t meet 20 years ago traveling in the same circles. We feel sadness at knowing that we could have had our kids together instead of the ex we now have to indure. Now, the evil quandry. Read the rest of this entry »

Posted by Jeffrey on Tuesday, 25 March, 2008

Lisa writes,

I tend to believe that I’m not naive about men, since I’ve dealt with every kind imaginable in my 38years of life, but even still, I’m amazed at the way some men behave. Recently, I met this gorgeous guy online on one of the top dating sites. He sent a “wink” to me showing his interest, and the next day he emailed me wishing me a Happy Valentine’s Day. It was a nice surprise, since I wasn’t dating anyone seriously. So, we started emailing, and getting to know eachother, and after about a week, he called me the first time at 1:30AM on Sunday. I didn’t answer because I was sleeping, and I figured it would have been liquid courage talking for him. So, he waited to call me until the following Saturday, and ended up calling me 4 times that night, and left several messages telling me he was very interested in me, and wanted to meet for dinner. Well, I didn’t answer my phone that night, because I was actually on a date with someone else that night. I sent a quick text on my way home from the date, saying yes, I’m still interested in you, let’s talk tomorrow.
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